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            I can't give 
            solutions to all of life's problems,doubts, or fears.
 But I can listen to you,
 and together we will  search for answers.
 
  I can't change your past with all
 it's heartache and pain,
 nor the future with its untold stories.
 But I can be there now when you need me to care.
 
  I can't keep your feet from stumbling.
 I can only offer my hand that you
 may grasp it and not fall.
 
  Your joys, triumphs, successes, and happiness
 are not mine;
 Yet I can share in your laughter.
 
   Your decisions in life are not mine to make,
 nor to judge;
 I can only support you, encourage you,
 and help you when you ask.
 
  I can't prevent you from falling away from friendship,
 from your values, from me.
 I can only pray for you, talk to you and wait for you.
 
   I can't give you boundaries which I
 have determined for you,
 But I can give you the room to change,
 room to grow, room to be yourself.
 
   I can't keep your heart from breaking and hurting,
 But I can cry with you and help you
 pick up the pieces
 and put them back in place.
 
  I can't tell you who you are.
 I can only love you and be your friend.
 
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